Dating a woman and she says im fine

Dating a woman and she says im fine

She Is Testing You For some reason, she wants to see if you care about her She wants to see if you will comfort her when she is down or notice her mood changes. She could just be a bit tired and was trying to be as nice as possible about responding. If this is the cause, let her sleep.

If she came in the home in a huff and threw her purse on the table, then she is probably not in a good mood. In the first option, you can make her tell her what she is thinking about, and then you can deal with the argument that she already knew would happen.

Yet, we still want you to ask us what is wrong and make us feel better. She may just want you to comfort her and make her feel better.

In the second option, you give her space, accept your win and hope that she cools down before you have to return to being in the same room again. She may know that it would cause an argument if she brought whatever it is up, so she is not going to say.

When a woman says that she is fine, that nothing is wrong, she is doing something that she has always been taught was the right move. And it is possible that the prospect of an arduous, drawn-out conversation about the hidden problems is as exhausting to her as it is to you. She Feels Tired If you have ever been grumpy or tired, you could probably sympathize.

She Is Angry Think through everything you did today. When we hear her utter those words, we roll our eyes and roll up our sleeves and immediately set to deciphering what it is that she really wants to say.

If someone is letting you know gently that they are not interested in discussing something, and reinforce that if you pry again, that may be all there is to it. Yes, she has been conditioned to hold back much of what she is hurt by, but these are all walls which we can eventually pull down if we treat one another with kindness and patience. Your stomach is growling, you feel lightheaded and there is another hour until dinner can be made. The idea that she actually is fine, or that her problems could stem from anywhere outside of her relationship, never seems to cross our minds.

Details may only make her go into meltdown mode. This seems to be a dangerous game to play though because many men and me, too would not want to deal with the stress of being in this type of relationship. Even when you are trying to be nice, your voice has an edge to it because you are too tired to make your voice sound nicer.

Obviously, it is wrong to stereotype any group of people because generalizations and stereotypes are frequently wrong. If you are upset or irritable, you might snap slightly. Listen to her tone and watch her mannerisms. We may not be in the right mood to share everything that is wrong or we may feel uncomfortable ruining your day as well.

You would think that we were a monolithic hive, moving from romance to romance with the efficiency and consistency of a Big Mac purchased in a foreign country. There are two options in this scenario. She Wants You to Comfort Her If she says that she is fine and has had a bad day, she might not want you to ask her any questions at all. Your entire job is to be there for her. My guess is that, if you had to search this question, you already suspect that the woman you are talking to right now is not fine at all.

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